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MessageSujet: TOP 5 PUBLIC SPEAKING TICS & SPEACH VIRUSES by Fred BULLOT ©   Sam 15 Nov - 21:31



The TOP 5 PUBLIC SPEAKING TICS that are ANNOYING as HELL ©

I spend a lot of time in front of an audience. It’s a major source of my income and if I suck at it, my bank account will feel it.

Since I’m rather fond of my bank account, I try to listen to others who do public speaking and pick up do’s and don’ts from them. It’s mostly don’ts, I’m afraid, especially from politicians. Our generation has very few good public speakers, and no genuine orators of consequence as far as I know.
The worst things I see are tics that speakers fall into. They annoy the heck out of me, and probably you too. I try to observe and remember those annoyances, so that I can avoid them in my own delivery.
Here, then are the top 5 things I notice in public speakers that grate on my nerves. Any of you that need to get in front of a group should try hard to avoid having a single one of these tics even one time in your presentation.

1/ "… YOU KNOW …" This is the one I see the most right now. Politicians seem to particularly susceptible to this one, including Obama. Here are a couple of examples from Senator Mark Warner in an interview published just a couple of days ago.

   You know, there’s ideas, for example, that I’ve found a tremendous response on that says, you know, we’ve got thousands of schools in our country that are energy inefficient. Why not take folks, particularly young people, 18 to 30 year olds, who’ve been on unemployment for more than 10 or 15 weeks and say, you know, we’re going to continue…
   Well, you know, the – I wish I’d say that, you know, I’m extraordinarily optimistic, but, you know, the alternative becomes, you know, if we’re going to look at gridlock, candidly, the whole Congress ought to get fired, because the American people ought to expect us to do our job.
   …there are a whole series of things that we could do that, frankly, you know, we do need folks – particularly in the House – to simply stop saying “no” and kind of roll up their sleeves and, you know, try to work together in a bipartisan way.

I doubt Warner even knows he does this, but I find it incredibly annoying when someone speaks like this. You probably do too, so make sure, you know, you’re not doing it.

2/ "… LIKE …" Another well known tic is the gratuitous use of " like ". Example: " This problem is like really hard to solve. You should like give us some extra time to like figure it out."

Conversational tics go in cycles, and this one is (hopefully) on the decline. At its height five or so years ago, I used to sit in audiences and calculate the " like index ", which was the number of times the speaker gratuitously stuck in " like " per minute.
Younger female speakers were and are by far the worst offenders, and for some reason this tic seems to be worse in California. I heard a young lady speak in front of a group a couple of years ago with a "like index" of about fifteen.

Because this one has been around a while, people notice it, and therefore it’s especially important to avoid it. It also has a connotation of youthful cluelessness, which is another very good reason to, like, keep your presentations " like "-free.

3/ "… RIGHT ? ..." This one’s fairly recent. I first noticed it about two years ago. Presenters began the tic of inserting the question-tone " right " at the end of about every other sentence. Even some quite good presenters I know picked this up, and I suspect it’s because it became a conversation tic inside Microsoft – the culture there has a tendency towards such tics.

A presentation with the " right ? " tic sounds something like this :

" The turboencabulator uses a CPU to encarphalize the singlial signal, right ? And that minimizes energy drain by the gristocentrum, right ? Compare that to an agilomodelizer. It connects garphal entities to anthrocentic viewlicanters, right ? "
Unlike " like " or " you know ", I think perhaps one or two " right ? " insertions per hour for emphasis might not be too bad. But as a tic inserted in every paragraph, not only is it irritating, after a while the audience begins to wonder if you’re not trying to convince yourself. Right?

4/ "… FRANKLY …" and its relatives. This one has been a favored tic from politicians for years. They like to insert " frankly " every so often in whatever they are trying to get across. You can get as many examples as you like with simple searches. Here’s one for “ senator frankly ”.

I think they are striving for the implication that they’re being honest with us, which of course for a politician is always an open question. I find it insulting, though. Are they not being honest if they don’t keep inserting " frankly " in every other sentence?
There are variations on " frankly " and some are far worse. Sometimes politicians realize they have used " frankly " too much, and switch to " candidly ", which is just as bad. An even worse variant is "To be honest with you…". A really bad variation is the insertion of " trust me ", which almost any audience member will interpret as " don’t trust me ".

If you believe in what you’re saying, it should come through in your tone and body language. You don’t need to keep reassuring your audience that you’re telling the truth. Unless you’re lying, of course.

5/ Overuse or misuse of " LITERALLY ". I’ve been guilty of this in my writing on occasion, probably because I’m trying to emphasize that I’m really not kidding about something that sounds outrageous. However, I recommend that you never use it in public speaking.

First, it has some of the same problem as " frankly ", in that your tone and demeanor should make it unnecessary. Second, there is a bad tendency in present day communication for it to be used naively. Some people apparently don’t understand what the word really means, and they just use it for general emphasis. If you use it, you risk being dumped into the bucket with those folks.

There are others: " a going-forward basis ", " incentivize " and other verbicized nouns, switching out perfectly clear terms such as " spending " to something that isn’t really accurate but has a better connotation (" investment "), and other forms of drone-speak. However, it’s the tics that really bother me. I can’t really seen any excuse for them whatsoever in someone who speaks as part of their profession.

If you have to get in front of a group more than once or twice a month, these tics will bother your audiences too. So do your best to banish them from anything you say in front of a crowd or on camera.

By Billy HOLLIS ©
http://www.qando.net/2011/08/28/top-five-public-speaking-tics-that-are-annoying-as-hell/









DO YOU HAVE A SPEAKING TIC ?

Some people say LIKE and YOU KNOWso often that you want to strangle them. Others say UM and I MEAN often and enthusiastically. Some people swallow nervously and spasmodically. Some people let their voice swing up in pitch at the end of every sentence as if they were always asking questions. For some, it’s happy feet – wandering around the stage as if they really loved walking and couldn’t wait to get off the platform.

I’ve seen a thousand tics over my years as a speech coach, and I’ve had a thousand people come up to me and point out someone else’s tic, usually in whispered tones, along with, “ Can’t you fix them ? ”

Here’s the thing about tics. Of course, we’re better off without them, but they’re not really a problem unless an audience notices them, and they get in the way of comprehension.

Then we do have a problem, Houston. And it’s time to get out the taser and fix it. A few shocks later, and your tic is gone.

Just kidding. There are several relatively painless ways to fix a tic. My favorite is to get someone, a friend, to count the tics over some specified period of time, like a speech, and then charge the offender an agreed-upon sum for each offense. Usually a dollar is enough to get the malefactor’s attention. And you’d be astonished how quickly the tic goes away after you’ve had to pay up a couple of times.

Another method is to video the speaker and point out the tics. That’s usually enough for the speaker to want to stop, and wanting to stop is usually enough to allow them to do so.

If you’re one of those people who says ‘ like ’ or ‘ you know ’ or ‘ um ’ and you’re aware of it, then self-monitoring may be the simplest way to fix the problem. Notice yourself in a relatively low-stress situation – say, a conversation – and just stop talking when the urge to um comes over you. Don’t stop forever, just long enough to let a little pause in your conversation flow rather than the tic. You’ll be surprised at how quickly you can train yourself to do without the likes or you knows or ums. They just go away.

So let’s all calm down about tics and start quietly eliminating them on our own. I’ll have less to do as a coach, but that’s OK.

by Nick MORGAN ©
http://www.forbes.com/sites/nickmorgan/

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The word anarchy comes from the ancient Greek ἀναρχία (anarchia), which combines ἀ (a), " Not, Without " and ἀρχή (arkhi), " Ruler, Leader, Authority ".
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The state is a PARASYTICAL institution that exists to EXPLOIT subjects, to protect an ILLEGITIMATE ruling class and to MONOPOLIZE resources and territories !

The state in all times and all places wants a population of despairing, dreary, hopeless, and weighted-down people.
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In contrast, hope upsets the prevailing order. It sees things that don't yet exist.

It acts on a promise of a future different from today. It plays with the uncertainty of the future and dares imagine that ideals can become reality. Those who think this way are a threat to every regime.
Why ? Because people who think this way eventually come to act this way. They resist. They rebel. They overthrow.

And yet look around: we see progress everywhere. What does this imply ?
It implies that non-compliance is the human norm. People cannot be forever pressed into a mold of the state's making.
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He has conducted interviews with various public figures on topics relating to education, academia, psychology, politics, and economics.

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